How to Choose an Educational Toy


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As the holidays draw near, a child’s wish list often grows longer by the day.  How can parents be sure that the toys they choose for their children are not only safe and fun, but also have a learning component?

To help parents make smart toy choices for the holidays and throughout the year, the experts at Kiddie Academy have developed a new infographic with suggestions for choosing an educational toy. 

“Educational toys allow children to explore in their own style and at their own pace without a time limit or expected outcome.  Unlike a video game that requires a child to follow a specific path in order to play, educational toys such as dolls and train sets allow for creative play that supports physical, cognitive and emotional growth,” explains Kiddie Academy’s Vice President of Education Richard Peterson. “In fact, numerous scientific studies have proven that play is important to a child’s healthy brain development.”

For more tips and free downloadable activities, parents can visit the Kiddie Academy Family blog at: http://www.kafamilyessentials.com/


Glittering Lights Las Vegas



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Glittering Lights Las Vegas Holiday drive through spectacular has entertained more than 1 million with millions of dazzling lights.   USA Today just named Glittering Lights a Top 10 Special Event in Las Vegas - it's incredible holiday tradition! This is really a beautiful light show, our entire family really enjoyed it!  It did not take us long at all to get through the line, no rush either to go through and even to stop and take pictures.   I do recommend you take some cash, they offer hot chocolate and other beverages and snacks before going in -  you don't even have to get out of your car, they will serve you in your vehicle!  Another thing - please turn off your headlights!!  Most people I think catch the sign, but some (like the people in back of us) did not!  :)  Just a friendly reminder!  It helps to enjoy the lights.  Those purple lights are amazing!  Totally love it and def recommend it as it's an affordable way to get out with the family and get in the holiday spirit!

$2 off Coupon!!  Good any night during the show.  Families can drive through the light show sponsored by the US Family Guide Mommy Bloggers!  Cannot be combined with other offers or previously purchased tickets.   Management reserves all rights.  One coupon per person/car.  This coupon must be printed and presented at the gate.  **COUPON**

How to Make Smart Charitable Choices for End of Year Annual Gift-Giving


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Take a wild guess – how many registered charities, IRS 501 ( c) (3)’s, are there in the United States? 50,000? $500,000? 1 million?  You might be surprised to know that there are approximately 1.5 million registered nonprofits, according to the National Center for Charitable Statistics http://nccs.urban.org/statistics/quickfacts.cfm. So, how does a person select the right charity to support especially around the holiday season, which brings in the most charitable dollars than any other time of year?

Here are some resources you can use to find the right charity that meets your desire to help someone or some cause as well as questions you can ask the charity or charities once you make your selection. What are the best Charity Watchdog Organizations? Donors are in luck because there are three extremely reputable groups that have been monitoring and ranking charities for years:

Charity Navigator (www.charitynavigator.org) has been in existence since 2001 and gives a Star Rating 1 through 4, one being the lowest, 4 being the highest for about 7,000+ best known and lesser known charities. It examines the charity's efficiency by looking at its financial health, accountability and transparency. Charity Navigator is now looking into adding an “effectiveness” rating, how effective the charity has been in carrying out its mission.

I happily serve on the board of Operation Homefront (http://www.operationhomefront.net), which provides emergency financial and other assistance to the families of our service members and wounded warriors. From personal experience I can share with you that, when I speak with donors and ask “How did you hear about us,” 9 out of 10 people say they searched Charity Navigator and we have a 4-star rating. That gives them confidence that when they give to Operation Homefront their gifts will be used immediately and to help those who serve our country.

GuideStar (http://www.guidestar.org) gathers information on IRS-registered nonprofit organizations. It provides information on the nonprofit's mission, legitimacy, impact, reputation, finances, programs, transparency, and governance. Tax exempt organization must file an annual Form 990 which lists the charities’ income, spending, mission and executive salaries. Most people use it to compare charities or to check to see if the charity is spending charitable dollars on high salaries or high overhead costs.

BBB Wise Giving Alliance (http://www.bbb.org/us/wise-giving-alliance-examples-corporate-resources) monitors and assesses nonprofits using a set of 20 guidelines, and publishes over 1,000 comprehensive reports on charities that evaluate their key attributes of accountability.

What are the red flags to avoid?  Once you have narrowed down your search, you can go to the charity’s website and view or download the past 3 annual reports.  Having worked in the nonprofit sector for over 20 years, let me share with you some secret tips in these reports that will help you with your selection:

Board and Staff Turnover. Simply compare the names listed in the last 3 annual reports. If you see different names year after year in either the board or the staff that signals something is not right. Many organizations have a 1-year board requirement (most have at least 2-3 with the right to renew for a second term) but you should see some names with consistency. Also, if the organization has different executive directors or directors of development that look like a revolving door, that signals a great dissatisfaction with the organization.

If you really want to contribute, I highly suggest a telephone call to the CEO or board chair and ask, “I’ve been reading over your last few annual reports and see a tremendous turnover in board/staff. Can you tell me
why?”

Where did the funds go? Most reports have the pie chart that shows the breakdown of where the funds go. Make sure a majority, at least 80%, of the funds raised are going direct to services or programs that matches the mission of the organization. For example, if a pet and animal charity has a mission statement that its purpose is to “rescue stray animals” in your community, yet the annual report shows that 20-40% of the funds went for “advocacy” purposes, you have to decide if you want to support advocacy or immediate rescue of stray and neglected animals.

Where did the funds come from? Giving USA 2014 (http://www.givingusareports.org) reports that a total
$335.17 billion was raised in the United States. 72% came from individuals. If you add bequests (because it is an individual who places a charity in a will), total individual giving is really 80%.  Compare these ratios to the charities you are interested in supporting. If the organization is too reliant on foundation or corporate giving, there is a warning sign that they are not moving in the direction of individual giving, which is the largest giving area. This would merit a telephone call to the chief fundraising officer and ask “What strategies do you have in place to capture more individual gifts,” and add “Is this part of your strategic plan?” If they answer yes, request they send you a copy of that plan.  You want your hard-earned dollars to go the organizations that will use that money wisely – so, ASK wisely!

LAURA knows how to ASK. She teaches the secrets of THE ASK©, and comes as an expert consultant, amongst the nation's top philanthropic advisors on “How To Raise Significant Money, Efficiently and Effectively,” just recently raising $1 million within 24 hours for a well-known charitable brand. As an attorney-turned-philanthropic advisor, she has enjoyed a lengthy and successful career in industries best known for making high profile, multi-million dollar A$KS – law and philanthropy - and is the first to merge strategies from both professional sectors into an all-new mainstream practice, THE ASK© for PHILANTHROPY, BUSINESS and EVERYDAY LIVING. This new practice has placed LAURA on the national and international speaking circuits at conferences around the world. THE ASK© has also led LAURA to TV and radio appearances across the nation, and her expertise featured in national publications. Her four books have become “go to” guides for numerous organizations around the world as well as used as academic material by the nation’s most prestigious universities. Top picks available on Amazon: The A$K: How to Ask Anyone for Any Amount for Any Purpose and The A$K: How to Ask for Support for Your Nonprofit Cause, Creative Project, or Business Venture. These books are the source material behind THE ASK© motivational speaking series and an all-new e-lifestyle offering at www.EXPERTonTHEASK.com which features the core curriculum behind all ASKS.

Of THE ASK©, VERIZON’s Chairman and Chief Executive Officer Ivan G. Seidenburg says, “LAURA knows how to coach others to get the results they want. Her strategies for success apply to the business and nonprofit world, the institutional and the personal spheres and her books translate those strategies into concrete advice about how to turn your goals into action, no matter what the setting.” THE ASK© for PHILANTHROPY, BUSINESS and EVERYDAY is a self-help, motivational series for both women and men who have dreams, goals and a strong desire to have the best and most fulfilling personal and professional life possible. The series provides coaching, training and proven best practices to enable participants to replace their fear of asking with a new ability to ASK for what they need, want and deserve in every aspect of their lives - finance, careers, health and relationships. The program’s tips and tools can be used and applied instantly to any facet of everyday life, at any time, from anywhere and in any situation.  For example,

While SUZE ORMAN teaches you how to spend and save money, LAURA teaches you “How to A$K for Money -- and More of It” While DR. OZ advocates for your everyday health concerns, LAURA reveals “The Questions You Are NOT ASKING Your Doctor That Can Save You $$$” While DR. PHIL negotiates for family resolution, LAURA shows you “How to Take the Fear Out of ASKING for Better
Relationships”

According to LAURA, “The quality of life is determined by the questions you ASK. Yet, the fear of ASKING is right up there with fear of heights, public speaking and spiders - the most fearful - ASKING for your OWN needs and for your OWN money. Some people would rather stand in the longest supermarket line than A$K for Money, and the #1 reason why people do not give you what you want: they simply haven’t been ASKED." LAURA puts the world of asking into perspective by teaching how to confidently and successfully ask. Just ASK LAURA how! For immediate matters on “How to A$K,” simply send a tweet directly to LAURA. Her Twitter handle: Laura @expertonTHEASK.

For more tips, tools and best practices, visit THE ASK© TIPLINE at www.EXPERTonTHEASK.com.

Best Foods Thanksgiving Leftover Recipe Tour



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Thanksgiving leftovers - nothing better than that!  But if you are like us and have so much leftover that you just don't know what else to do with it all, I've got some tasty ideas for you!  Thanksgiving Turkey is delicious but it can quickly dry out int he days following.  Transform your leftovers with a little help from Best Foods.  Best Foods Mayonnaise helps make turkey moist and delicious.  The secret to great-tasting leftovers is using quality ingredients that complement each other.  Best Foods Mayonnaise helps bring flavors together to keep every bite satisfying.  Best Foods Mayonnaise is real mayonnaise made with real ingredients; like eggs, oil and vinegar.

 After a couple days of eating left overs as is, I needed to mix things up a bit, but I also wanted something that was simple, quick and satisfying.   We had made two turkeys for Thanksgiving, we had fried one and roasted the other.  The roasted turkey had started to become dry and needed some help if we were going to get through it.  We had tons of rolls and tons of turkey - so why not put the two together!

  • Roll out a package of crescent rolls
  • Spread with a tablespoon of mayonnaise or mix in with the turkey as I did above
  • Place some turkey on the edge of the roll
  • Roll and place in oven until brown
YUM! These literally melted in your mouth!! They were so good!!  They mayonnaise was the perfect addition to moisten things up a bit.  You can even add some green beans, some stuffing (which I think I'm going to try tomorrow night) or even some ham.  Simple, easy and def satisfying! 

For more recipes and information visit www.bestfoods.com and don't forget to add Best Foods Mayonnaise to your shopping list when you're at the grocery store next time - it's the secret to great-tasting leftovers! 
As we take the time to enjoy family and friends this weekend.....and get some shopping done, I wanted to wish you and yours a wonderful holiday season!! Hope you all had a good time yesterday.  I know we are surely enjoying the left overs!  It was our first time frying a turkey and let me tell you - it was so so good!! The outside was nice and crisp all the way around and the inside was so moist and flavorful!  Never will go back to roasting!!  Enjoy your weekend & we'll see you Monday!



HGTV Unwraps 'Santa HQ' at 10 Macerich Malls Across The Country



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This is my absolute favorite time of year!! We try to soak it in as much as possible and hit up as many events as we can.  I love spending the season with my family, making memories! Each event is so different and it's own experience!  HGTV celebrates the holidays with Santa HQ, an immersive experience that transforms the traditional visit with Santa Claus into a jingle-filled, interactive journey for all ages at 10 Macerich malls across the country.  For more than six weeks, from now through Christmas Eve, December 24th, HGTV and Macerich will present a completely re-imagined visit with Santa for the 21st century by pairing cutting-edge technology with an authentic holiday experience.  Visitors can take an ELFIE Selfie and star in their own holiday video, explore Santa's Observatory using Elf-Ray Vision, test out the Naughty O' Nice Meter and enjoy a memorable photo with Santa himself.


By using your handheld device as a "portal," you can see and interact with stunning digital scenes surrounding them inside Santa's Obsevatory.  Visitors can continue the adventure with a custom photo opportunity, followed by the ultimate moment with Santa inside his modemized sleigh.  You can reserve your experience time in advance via the Santa HQ Website.











MommyMedsApp is Live (Free for a limited time!)



In celebration of the launch of the new MommyMeds brand for pregnant and breastfeeding mothers, the iOS mobile app MommyMeds is now free for a limited-time. Available for free until December 1st, the app and new, complementary website help mothers look up symptoms and saftey information on thousands of medications.

MommyMeds, an extension of Texas Tech University Health Sciences Center’s (TTUHSC) InfantRisk Center, now offers a WebMD-like hub for mothers, lactation specialists and natal care professionals with the newly launched MommyMeds.com website.  For a continued experience, the MommyMeds app will now feature information from the new website. MommyMeds and MommyMeds.com were created with extensive evidence-based research by one of the world’s leading experts in perinatal pharmacology, Thomas Hale, R.Ph.,Ph.D.

“A healthy mom makes a healthy baby,” InfantRisk Center Executive Director, Dr. Hale said. “There’s almost always something a pregnant mother can use safely, and we want to promote that with a variety of useful tools and information.”

Resources in the MommyMeds app include:

● Reliable safety ratings and other information for more than 20,000 drugs, vitamins and herbals
● Enter a product name or sort by category to find product safety information and determine if it is safe for use during each trimester and while breastfeeding
● Convenient barcode scanner for over-the-counter medications
● Lists appropriate drugs for various conditions while pregnant or breastfeeding, including headache, nausea, allergies and more
● Hot topics related to pregnancy and breastfeeding

“MommyMeds is vital for pregnant and breastfeeding mothers,” said TTUHSC President Tedd L. Mitchell, M.D. “The app could become as synonymous with prenatal care as folic acid and ultrasounds. We commend Dr. Hale and the InfantRisk Center for their significant contribution to the health and safety of women and infants.”

MommyMeds is compatible with both the Android phone and Apple iPhone. The app is available in the App Store for free until December 1st. The app will continue to be available for $1.99 in the App Store and Google Play Store thereafter.